Sometimes, we get into conflict with people and do not know how to resolve it, or approaching the person is premature. We are not ready, not prepared to speak our truth nor hear the truth from the other. Conciliation is a specific form of counseling. No doctors. No psychological tests or gimmicks. Conciliation is about remembering who you really are, recalling how you wanted to act in tense situations, and retaining that when you engage with the other.